My BIG WHY

As I am always a mother first, I manage my kids seriously. Though I don't qualify for the kiasu soccer mom award, I always put them first in any equation that need solving. Most mothers can identify with me, having to put family first. But there is always one or two questioning my motives.

You see, one of my life goals is to push and support my kids to stand up on their own two feet and explore what life has to offer. The faster the learning, the better. WHY? Because there is never a guarantee that I will wake up tomorrow morning. With that in mind, I will need to prep them with proper training and real life monitored simulations every chance I get. Begin with an end in mind.

Also, I will let the kids learn to make their own decision 

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